Ask the Psychic
Afraid to be Psychic?
Our psychic abililites are a birthright, part of the innate protective mechanisms that make us human. Like our five physical senses, our psychic senses are designed to help us survive in the world. But because our psychic senses are triggered whenever we sense danger, folks often report that their first experiences with being psychic is"bad" in the sense that they saw bad things happening... and thus, many people are afraid to open up psyhcically, for fear that they can only see bad stuff... here we address this issue...
I know you have been told this before but here goes. I have been told many times that I am psychic but have been too afraid to see clairvoyantly because I saw too many bad things growing up plus the people I have come across would rather put me in paper slippers at a hospital if I told them I was psychic. I don't really know if I am supposed to do anything with being psychic in this life time and I was asking just that question - What am I supposed to do with this?? I can be reached at www.naturescare-capecod.com Thank you for your help. Tessa
Given the work you are doing, you are probably already doing a lot more than you realize about being psychic - I urge you to learn as much as you can about animal communications - you are probably using your psychic abilities a lot more than you think just in the work you are doing... there are a lot of ways to express yourself as a psychic, we talk about it more as a way of life than a set of skills... a way of being and interacting with the world that acknowledges that we are a lot more than simply a body... you might start be taking a class in meditation and learning a tool like the Tarot or the runes... Using my abilities has saved my life and my pocketbook - and a lot of time over the years, so I urge you to quietly go about the business of developing your abilities... at the end of the day, the best way is to learn what you can from the resources you have available - the web and the library are good places to start, and start applying what you learn in simple ways in your life.. Lotsa LLLove, Danielle
Ok, all my life I was able to detect things about to happen, both positive and negative. I was able to detect little things though, like meeting up with someone I haven't seen in a long time, or something to do with my immediate family. As I got older (and believe me I'm not even 20 yet) my powers (if you want to call them that) have gotten stronger. When I was 10, I had a dream about my grandmother getting ill. She had multiple strokes. In the days before her death I told my mom the time was near. After that it got even stronger. When my boss's sister was ill, I told him as I left the office that I was sorry, and that it was for the best. he looked at me, and said "ok" in a confused voice. only later did he call me to tell me that he wouldn't be in the next day. His sister had died. After that, I realized maybe I wasn't imagining it after all. I had previously played around with tarot cards which came out to foretell that I was going to pass all classes, get into a great college, not have a boyfriend for a while, know I was going to be betrayed the night of the prom, help my mom's friend in a business venture and many more. I decided to seek the advice of a psychic/medium that I knew personally through a friend and through her also being my teacher in HS. She told me to read a book and get back to her, as she spoke to me she said that she became aware of my gift.So far i've read half the book, but this is where I become afraid.
Yesterday was new years eve. I was at a friends house where there was underage drinking going on. I left for a while with his older sister to visit a friend of hers but on the way out I looked at him and said."something bad will happen, stay aware" I came back, he told me he stopped a near crime that was almost committed. I went back in to the room where I was working on something with his sister and a strong feeling came over me, I closed my eyes and meditated and saw an ambulance. I walked outside to talk to him about something else, and the girl next to him passed out. No one would let me call 911. They didn't understand that if they called then, the trouble would not have been so severe. They waited thinking they could care for her themselves. When they finally called, I ran outside. I knew the parents were returning home. The next part is blurred in my memory, but I cried on my dad's shoulder that I couldn't stop it even though I knew it was going to happen. the gift scared me more then ever. Then my friends mother, (the owner of the house) nearly fainted herself through fear. Since she is a believer in my gift I told her exactly what would happen. The girl would be ok, no charges would be pressed, the one who brought the alcohol would be arrested and her son would be questioned. We went to the hospital to care for the girl and found out the following: no charges would be pressed, the one who brought the alcohol was arrested and her son was questioned.
What I don't understand is that why only in situations such as that and other negative things are my readings so strong? I've been sensing for a while that something bad will happen to my prom date, and I can't stop it. it just bewilders me that it works sometimes, but not in enough detail. are there any ways to fine tune it? Andy
Our psychic sense are connected with our basic protective mechanisms, so it
is not surprising that it comes up for you as warnings... but this is also
an indication that if you work at developing this gift, you can use it to
see good things also...
There are some things you can do to change the energy around future
events... in the case of the prom date - every time you think of her, see
her surrounded in a bubble of beautiful pink and green light - the colour of
Divine Love - this is protective and healing - visualize the night of the
prom in living detail and see every detail being washed in this loving
light... this can help to avert any negative energy or at least to minimize
the impact of these events...
All that said, you must remember that all has purpose and one of the basic
tenets of existence in this universe is free will...we must allow folks to
exercise their rights of free will, even when we can see that it might lead
to trouble.. in those cases, the best we can do is stand back out of the way
and be ready to pick up the pieces...
Lotsa LLLove, Danielle
I know that I am psychic. In fact, I have always felt special. I know you get a lot of emails like this, but let me get to the point. When I was younger, I met a friend that put me in touch with my abilities. However, all we could do was play around. Now that I am an adult, I want to develop my psychic abilities, but I don't want to run into the same problem that I ran into before. When you become aware...what's out there becomes aware of you...I don't know how to protect myself. I know that being a good person...and having good kharma helps...but it scares me to think about getting attacked by something that I don't understand. Do you have any advice? Also...I don't exactly know what road to take to strenghthen my abilities...your assistance is appreciated. Thanks! Wow...that wasn't so hard...I was honest and I know that you'll help me...and I appreciate it!
The best way to protect yourself from negative energy is to keep your vibrational frequency high enough that it can't get to you... this means learning to work with the vibration of love, to avoid fear and judgments - and to be willing to deal with your issues face on so they don't come and get you through the work you are doing... I don't know that I have good karma, my life has held it's share of challenges... but I have never spent much time being afraid of the connections... when I have felt myself under attack, I simply turned to my friend to help me move the energy off - and then looked inside to see what was up that such energy could get to me... we create our own realities through our thoughts and feelings, the love we express and the actions we take - when we are conscientious on all of these levels to keep our energy up, it becomes relatively easy to keep the scary stuff at bay... hope that helps some, Lotsa LLLove, Danielle
Hi, please tell me if these experiences I am about to describe are considered psychic or if there is another name for this? On several occations I have seen things before they happen. They are always bad things such as car accidents, or a small child running into traffic. The scene plays just like a movie, but the colours are slightly faded. I will see this movie minutes or seconds before the event or accident occurs, as if some angel is warning me. The feelings of intuition and fear are so strong my breath stops for a moment. On several occations I have slowed down or stopped my car to avoid the actual accidents which I saw happen, in exactly the same way, only seconds before. I have never told anyone this before because I think that people who dont see things before they happen wouldn't understand. I am both fascinated and frightened by this ability. I have never tried to enhance it or study it. I would like to become more in touch with it, but at the same time I fear I will become overwhelmed by seeing terrible things before they happen. Hoping you can offer some advice and insight.
Yes, this is psychic activity - clairvoyance, specifically... one way to help yourself is to learn to meditate and to practice daily, and you can learn a tool like to tarot to help you tap into it... if you will work at raising your vibrational frequency with love and laughter and light, you can start seeing happy things to... it is just that our psychic abilities are rooted in our protective mechanisms, so one of the first places they will appear is in helping us to avoid danger. Lotsa LLLove, Danielle
I first started seeing things before they happened, in my dreams as a child, then at about 17 I had my first out of body experience. My dream prediction experiences are now becoming more frequent, 50% of them now become a reality almost spontaneously, for example I have a dream of something happening on the other side of the world, while it is happening,or I have a dream and when I wake up the phone rings and I find out the dream has become a reality. The other 50% may become reality between a few weeks to a few months. My current concern is that my dreams are often of negative events. When I was about 18 I dreamt of military planes crashing in a head on collision and woke up to see on television newsflashes that the planes in my dream had actually crashed, whilst I was sleeping. I am now 31, I recently dreamt of my father collapsing and being taken to hospital in London (I live in Australia ), soon after I found out that while I was having the dream he was actually being taken to hospital in London.
I do not have any control over what I dream, although I seem to instinctively know which dreams will come true. Some dreams involve my friends and family and I find them distressing. I have never been to see a psychic and don't even read my horoscope, I have always had the attitude 'I would rather not know what my future will be, in case I don't like it'. I have always tried to believe that we make our own fate and each have control over our own future. However the frequency and accuracy of my recent dreams now makes me doubt a lot of things and I feel a little lost. I am afraid I will become paranoid and not be able to live my life in a relaxed enjoyable manner, because I have no way of knowing when my negative dreams will come true or whether or not I can prevent them from coming true. One good dream I have had, happened when I was about 27, my grandfather had died and I went to his funderal in Cyprus, the night after his burial I dreamt of him, he told me he had forgiven certain family members for certain things and said goodbye. The dream took place in the same place I had previously had my out
of body experience in, when I was 17.I am open minded, although I always explore scientific explanations for things I do not understand, rather than paranormal ones. I would like to know whether or not I can somehow learn to control these experiences, it would be nice to see something positive for a change. If I am stuck with the negative dreams, is it possible for me to prevent the negative things from happening in reality. Is there anything I can do to turn something which thus far feels like a curse into something positive. Thanks Sue
Yes, you will need to work on raising your vibrational frequency - to work at being loving in all of your thoughts, avoiding judgments - especially of yourself... learn to stay connected with nature, to eat naturally and to lead a balanced life with lots of room for play.. practice daily meditation... all of this will help you open up to more positive vibrations - and seeings... Lotsa LLLove, Danielle
